Dating Tips

15 Reasons You Should Switch To Girls

Check out these perks to dating girls instead of guys.

Sweet Tooth

Women need chocolate in their lives at some point, and men may not understand how intense the cravings can be. A woman is guaranteed to stock up on your favorite sweets when she knows you’ll want them most.

Wet Towels

Women HATE wet towels being left on the floor or on furniture. With no man in the house, there’s no reason to worry about damp towels ruining any carpet or couch.


No need to force your partner to suffer through a chick-flick marathon, because she’ll want to watch just as much as you do.

Share Clothing

Can’t find anything to wear? You can raid your significant other’s side of the closet when dating a female.

Don’t Have To Compete With Video Games

Most men play video games, and most women don’t. You’ll never have to worry about your partner spending more time playing games than with you, because chances are she won’t be into them.

No Beard Hairs In The Sink

For some reason guys can’t shave without leaving hundreds of beard hairs all over the bathroom. I can guarantee that there will be no beard shavings in the sink if you date a woman.

No Guy’s Nights

You won’t have to worry about what your honey is doing during guy’s night out, because you’ll be right there with her during girl’s night out.

Toilet Seat Won’t Be Up

You won’t be falling into the toilet late at night anymore.

Spend Less Money On Meaningless Items

Guys like weird things that women don’t understand spending money on, like the latest electronics. Women generally can agree what’s worth spending big bucks on, and what they can really do without.

Help With Cooking

Some guys enjoy cooking, but most don’t know what they’re doing in the kitchen. Dating a woman means help making dinner because they know you don’t want to do all of the cooking.

Better Listeners

It’s a simple fact that women are better at listening than men are.

Better Cuddling

All women love to cuddle, and dating a female means you’ll never have to worry about your partner being in the mood to spoon

Better Advice

Women can give better advice to fellow females, because they understand more and can relate to one anther.

Better Kissers

Women are more gentle and softer kissers than men are, and what doesn’t sound good about that?!

Understand Your Emotions

Sometimes guys don’t understand why women cry or get mad, but your girlfriend will. It’s never fun getting upset and having your partner be indifferent to you, but that’s not something women have to worry about when their significant other understands perfectly.

Dating Advice, Dating Tips

Warning Signs That Shout He’s A Stage 5 Clinger

If the guy you’re seeing meets this criteria, it’s time to abandon ship!

He Plans For The Future

If you haven’t been seeing each other long and he’s already making plans for the future, he’s a clinger.

He’s Constantly Texting You

If he keeps texting you even though you’re clearly ignoring him, it’s time to cut him loose.

He Leaves Stuff At Your Place

A classic characteristic of a stage 5 clinger is leaving something at your place so he has an excuse to see you again.

He Knows Where You Live Even Though You Haven’t Told Him

If he knows where you live even though you never gave him your address, it’s time to run.

He Stalks Your Social Media

A stage 5 clinger will like every picture and update you post on social media.

He Doesn’t Play Hard To Get

Most guys play hard to get when they meet a new girl. If he doesn’t, you might have a stage 5 clinger on your hands

He Says You’re In A Relationship When You’re Not

He will tell his friends and your friends that you are in a serious relationship far too soon.

He Shows Up Wherever You Go

A real stage 5 clinger will start showing up to places where he knows you’ll be even though you didn’t tell him.

He Can’t Take A Hint

No matter how many hints you drop, he still won’t get the hint that you want him to leave.

He Wants To Be With You All The Time

Everyone needs their space, but a stage 5 clinger will want to be with you at all times.

He Shows Up When Another Guy Is Flirting With You

Stage 5 clingers are jealous and will show up when another guy shows an interest in you.

He Guilt Trips You

He will make you feel bad about not wanting to hang out with him until you finally give in.

He Knows Everything About The People In Your Life

He will know all the details about your friends and family members because he’s probably stalking their social media accounts.

He Shows Up To Your Work

He will do this multiple times even after you tell him to stop.

He Wants To Know Where You Are At All Times

He’s taking it too far if he is constantly wanting to know where you are.

Dating Online, Dating Tips

Tinder Plus Will Revolutionize Dating Again With ‘Undo-Swipe’ Button

Ladies and gentlemen, Tinder Plus is about to rock your world by allowing you to undo accidental left-swipes. That’s right, the hottie you accidentally sent away forever can be retrieved with the forthcoming update.

For $6.99 per month Tinder users will soon be able to rectify mistakes that caused tears and late-night status updates about the one that got away. No longer will you damn the app that stole your future spouse over an accidental ‘X’ swipe.

Other Tinder members won’t be able to see that this power is in your hands, so no one will know about your addiction to the app and the fact that you’re paying money to use it.

I think this additional control is a great move for the company that hooks strangers up. It will surely make the user feel more comfortable when casually swiping. It also gives Tinder a great way to monetize their product while giving us a tool that we will actually use and enjoy.

There will be other features added for the monthly fee but they have not been announced yet. I’m hoping for a button that will get rid of users that don’t like animals. Seriously, those people must be evil.

Keep your eyes peeled over the coming weeks for an in-app notification of the paid update. It is expected to be released in March.

Dating Rules, Dating Tips

Expectations Versus Reality: Why Dating Is Hard

There’s the “Hollywood” romance and then there’s yours. Why the reality of dating is NOTHING close to what you expect it to be like.

Expectation: You Should Look For An Epic Love Story

Sleepless in Seattle, Pretty Woman, Dirty Dancing, You Got Mail, etc. You get the point, the more drama, the better the ending, the better chance you have at an happily ever after love story

Reality: You Build Something Together

You do not need pain in order to have passion. The best love stories that happen, happen unexpectedly and happen because two people decide to build something together.

Expectation: You Need A Relationship To Be Happy

You don’t need to be in a relationship in order to be happy. People assume that in order to be happy, you need to be with someone, hence why online dating is at an all-time high. Don’t settle for love. Period. If you are expecting someone to make you happy, you are mislead. The only person who can make you happy is yourself.

Reality: Happiness Isn’t a Relationship It’s Who You Are

If you aren’t happy alone and with yourself, you can never find happiness with anyone.

Expectation: You and I become “we”

When one of you is invited somewhere, you both go; one of you doesn’t exist without another. When you are in a relationship, the independence dies, because now it’s all about “we” everywhere.

Reality: It Takes Two

If you become a “we” and stop maintaining two distinct lives and identities, the relationship risks collapsing in on itself.

Expectation: Things Will Never Go Wrong

We’ll never argue. We’ll never have to worry about outside pressures. We’ll never have family problems. Everything will always come up roses.

Reality: Things Will Go Wrong

Relationships are not always smooth sailing. Issues come up, disagreements happen. It’s the way you handle the trough times together that defines your relationship.

Expectations: You Change For Someone You Love

If your relationship is struggling, you will change in order to adapt to the person you’re with and improve to be good enough. Hey, maybe you’ll even change what you want out of life so you can accommodate your partner’s goals and desire. It’s all about your partner now, not you.

Reality: A Relationship Is A Two-Way Street

You should not have to change who you are in order to be with someone you love. Sometimes, compromise is necessary, but changing who you are and compromising are not the same thing.

Expectation: Your Relationship Is Everything

Now that you are in a relationship, that’s it. You are done. Every focus should be on this relationship and you must be with your best friend.

Reailty: A Realtionship Adds To Your Life

A relationship adds to your life, doesn’t take anything away and it’s the only thing that matters in your life. Yes, you have your career, you may have kids, you have hobbies, interests, etc. Having that special someone in life will add to what you already have.

Expectation: Your Love Is The Be-all, End-all

How many times have you heard the saying, “Love conquers all?” and, “All you need is love?” This is what will help you get through all the tough times, is love and only love.

Reality: Love Is Only The Foundation

Relationships require a hell of a lot more than love. They require trust, effort, understanding, faith, patience and honesty. Those are the things that will get you through the tough patches, not just love alone.

Expectations vs Realities

All relationships go through bad times, but real relationships get through bad times. Relationships include: fights, jealousy, arguments, and tears. But a real relationship fights through all of those with real, genuine, love. Expecting things to turn out a certain way will end up disappointing you.

Dating Advice, Dating Tips

15 Unrealistic Female Leads

While these these characters and the women who play them can be looked up to, many of their aspects are completely unrealistic for any real, normal human.

Cameron Diaz in The Holiday

Most Unrealistic: Having a dozen beautiful winter coats to wear in England, when you are from L.A. Also, fitting all those coats in one suitcase.

Kate Hudson in How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days

Most Unrealistic: Perfect job, friends, apartment, wardrobe, body, life in NYC.

Eva Mendes in The Women

Most Unrealistic: Being a woman whose only goal in life is to break up marriages and buy expensive things.

Alexis Bledel in Gilmore Girls

Most Unrealistic: Never having to pay for college or rent because everyone surrounding you is somehow rich and eager to help.

Katherine Heigl in 27 Dresses

Most Unrealistic: Basically being a saint. Also, having 27 friends close enough to you that they want you as a bridesmaid.

Scarlett Johansson as Black Widow

Most Unrealistic: Always looking sexy and sporting cleavage while performing intense physical tasks.

Any Bond Girl

Most Unrealistic: Living to look sexy in a cocktail dress or bikini.

Sarah Jessica Parker in Sex and the City

Most Unrealistic: Being able to afford those shoes, that lifestyle, and that apartment on a columnists salary.

Rachel McAdams in Mean Girls

Most Unrealistic: Surviving after being hit by a bus.

Kiera Knightley in Everything

Most Unrealistic: Being flawless and seemingly made of porcelain.

Rosamund Pike in Gone Girl

Most Unrealistic: Being the most meticulous villain of all time and making it look doable.

Uma Thurman in Kill Bill

Most Unrealistic: Bouncing back to a killing machine right after being in a coma for several months.

Zooey Deschanel in 500 Days of Summer

Most Unrealistic: Dozens and dozens of men stalking her at her ice cream parlor job and bus route because she is so irresistible.

Lena Dunham in Girls

Most Unrealistic: Being a caricature of the worst kind of 20-something female.

Heike Makatsch in Love Actually

Most Unrealistic: Having only one personality trait.